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Stop TANF-funded Marriage Programs

Temporary Assistance to Needy Families (TANF) (also known as welfare or public assistance) is an important part of our social contract to help parents and children in poverty.  Congress must vote on whether to continue TANF every five years. TANF is due to be reauthorized in 2010. 

When President Clinton "ended welfare as we knew it," he allowed Congress to state that the purposes of TANF include promoting marriage and two-parent families, and reducing births to unmarried parents.  Then the Bush Administration used TANF funds to give $150 million per year to hundreds of marriage programs around the country. 

Learn more about government-funded marriage programs.

Those programs are fighting hard to keep their grants flowing.  We must fight just as hard to put that money back into programs that are proven to ease the pain of poverty and help families leave poverty behind, regardless of their marital status.

The text in the shaded box below, plus the signatures and comments, will be delivered to federal officials during the TANF reauthorization process.

Please sign, share your experiences, and tell your friends!

Policies that aim to help children should support all the types of families in which children really live. It is wrong to use Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) to pay for marriage programs. Government is literally taking money away from impoverished families and giving it to programs that tell them their families are not good enough. There is no proof that marriage programs ease the burden of poverty or make low-income children better off. Marriage should be a personal choice, not a government mandate.

Congress should state that the purpose of TANF is to end poverty, not to promote marriage. Congress should not reauthorize the Healthy Marriage Initiatives.
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1-25 of 180 signatures
Number Date Name Location If you have personal ...
180 Tue Feb 09 09:45:59 EST 2010 Katie Goldstein NY
179 Mon Feb 08 21:01:44 EST 2010 Ken Rosso PA
178 Mon Feb 08 16:08:02 EST 2010 Rebecca Ennen NY
177 Mon Feb 08 13:01:22 EST 2010 Molly McHenry Brooklyn, OH
176 Mon Feb 08 12:59:38 EST 2010 Rebecca Subar PA
175 Mon Feb 08 12:05:42 EST 2010 Nava EtShalom Philadelphia, PA
174 Mon Feb 08 11:34:06 EST 2010 Karey Bacon Philadelphia, PA
173 Mon Feb 08 11:24:26 EST 2010 lezlie frye NY
172 Mon Feb 08 11:17:46 EST 2010 Sara Narva PA
171 Mon Feb 08 11:07:54 EST 2010 Hannah Mermelstein NY
170 Mon Feb 08 11:07:52 EST 2010 Alex Weissman NY
169 Mon Feb 08 10:47:03 EST 2010 Alissa Wise NY
168 Thu Feb 04 17:09:06 EST 2010 Jenny Salata Knoxville, TN
167 Thu Feb 04 04:30:43 EST 2010 Linda Masterson Orlando, FL As a single person, I resent the implication that I would be a better parent, or would be better equipped to care for a child if I was married. The tax codes, in fact the entire system of government ...
166 Wed Feb 03 22:45:33 EST 2010 Lindsay Millar Ottawa, ON
165 Wed Feb 03 20:46:04 EST 2010 Ira Rosen Brooklyn, NY
164 Wed Feb 03 19:41:34 EST 2010 Anonymous Manhattan, KS
163 Sun Jan 31 18:25:52 EST 2010 Debra Gram Harrisonburg, VA
162 Sun Jan 31 11:08:59 EST 2010 Cole Thompson Sonora, CA
161 Sun Jan 31 09:38:58 EST 2010 Kathryn Snow VA
160 Sun Jan 31 00:34:39 EST 2010 Kathleen Collins Berkeley, CA
159 Sat Jan 30 20:35:01 EST 2010 Carolyn Marie Fugit Wichita, KS
158 Fri Jan 29 11:32:18 EST 2010 Sam Miller Brooklyn, NY
157 Thu Jan 28 15:09:57 EST 2010 Michael Yarbrough Brooklyn, NY
156 Thu Jan 28 10:24:55 EST 2010 Robert Cowles Muskegon, MI
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